Your indecisiveness showed poor coordination between combined arms, terrible useage of reconnaisance, and a very poor dispersal of units.  Your performance has left the units under your command in shambles.  You have pulled a defeat from the jaws of certain victory.

You should never have assaulted the enemy head on.  Next time, try a flanking attack.  While we have a huge advantage in manpower, I don't think that we will always have the ability to throw away our troops.

By the same token, your fellow commanders have largely achieved the same results given the same circumstances.  
